Making the Holidays Special — The First Year in Senior Living

The first holiday season after a move to assisted living or memory care can feel bittersweet. Families might find themselves missing old traditions while learning how to celebrate in a new environment.

While the setting has changed, the heart of the holidays hasn’t. Joy, connection, and meaning are all still possible — just in new ways.

Embrace the Community’s Celebrations

Most senior living communities go all out for the holidays — from festive décor and themed dinners to lights tours, concerts, and caroling events.

Encourage your loved one to join in. The festivities help residents feel part of something larger and create new memories without the stress of hosting or cooking.

If you can, attend alongside them. Go to the holiday open house, help decorate cookies, or enjoy a community carol sing. Let the community handle the details while you focus on time together.

Get Involved Together

Many communities welcome family participation during the holidays. Ask about opportunities to help decorate, bake, or volunteer at special events.

Even small activities, like helping wrap gifts, greeting guests, or handing out cookies, can help residents feel needed and purposeful.

The holidays are about belonging. When families and residents work together, that sense of togetherness grows even stronger.

Keep Favorite Traditions (in New Ways)

Even in a new setting, familiar traditions can bring warmth and comfort. Try adapting your family’s favorites:

• Bring in your loved one’s favorite holiday dish for a small gathering.

• Stream a church service together if attending in person isn’t possible.

• Play holiday music, decorate their apartment with cherished ornaments, or host a cozy movie night.

• Ask your loved one to help you write or send holiday cards — a simple way to stay connected with family and friends.

• Spend time reminiscing with old photos or home videos.

• If they enjoy giving gifts, shop online together or create homemade presents.

These small acts preserve a sense of continuity and make the season feel familiar, even in a new place.

Be Present — Not Perfect

It’s okay if this holiday looks and feels different. The move to senior living is a big change, and emotions may run high.

Try to release expectations of “perfect.” What matters most is being there: a shared laugh, a warm hug, a quiet conversation over cocoa. Those small moments often become the memories that last longest.

The Gift of Togetherness

The holidays may not look the same, but they can still be filled with warmth, joy, and love.

Give yourself grace, lean on the community’s support, and stay open to creating new traditions that bring happiness and connection to this next chapter.

The real magic of the season isn’t about where you celebrate — it’s about who you share it with.